Perhaps you have heard of
the name “Thomas Beatle”. Ring any
bells? That is what the world-famous
pregnant man renamed himself as. He was
born a girl, underwent sex reassignment surgery, but kept his internal reproductive
organs intact. He became famous after he
stopped taking hormone drugs and became pregnant through artificial assimilation
as a man.
What is interesting is
that when he transitioned into a man, he chose a “white” name, rather than an
Asian name, as his heritage and facial characteristics would suggest.
In “Why You Don’t Have to Choose A White Boy Name To Be A
Man In This World,” Kenji Tokawa, talks about the way names are gendered. Different cultures have different ways of interpreting
names. One name may be feminine in one
culture, while also be masculine in another culture. In this culture, it is “white” names that carry
the advantage when renaming oneself.
According to Tokawa, “culture of white supremacy presents the white male
body as what is normal for masculinity.
Along with the body comes the acceptable set of names. Along with a presumed whiteness comes
respect. Along with this respect comes confidence
and safety to move about in this world as masculine self-identified”
(210). Tokawa mentions this in
retrospect after the awkward encounter with Kristen, where she mistakes his
name and calls him “Benji” like the popular Americanized dog in the late 1900s
movies. While it is natural to associate
things with ideas that we have learned from our culture, it is important to
realize that a feminized name does not mean a male gender, and vice versa.
Culture does play a huge role in how names are interpreted. For example, Tokawa says “ko” is perhaps a
lucky traits in a name for tomboy” (209) in a Latinized linguistic environment. On the other hand, in Japan, his previous
name was a “very flowery, feminine Japanese name” (209), which means “Joy and
beauty” (209). Indeed, when he went to
college, more Japanese girls had his name, and he needed to change his feminine
name to a more masculine one. He
purposefully choses Kenji, which is a Japanese name in a video game, hoping
that people will recognize it as Japanese and
male. Sometimes it works, sometimes it
doesn’t. In essence, the lesson to be
learned here is to take a second look before you assume a person’s gender.
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