When I first picked up Middlesex, I was surprised to learn that
it was a book about a hermaphrodite. (The
title of the book suddenly made a whole lot more sense.) I thought, I probably won’t like this book
because I won’t be able to relate. I
searched my brain to see what I knew about hermaphrodites. In the back of my brain, I distantly
remembered an article I read from the New
York Times that discussed the controversial topic of intersex women in
competitive international sports such as the Olympics. (The article is called “The Humiliating
Practice of Sex-Testing Female Athletes” by Ruth Padawer for those of you that
are curious.) It featured an Indian
women named Dutee Chand that had come from a poor rural area, who had
illiterate parents that were basket-weavers, and who had earned luxuries such
as food by running, food that her family would normally not be able to afford. When her gender was questioned, she was
subjected to a series of tests to prove that she was a woman. But, alas, she failed. It was found that she had more androgens than
the usual woman. So then it was declared
that she would be banned from participating in competitive sports. This woman was shocked. She was told during the series of tests she
had to endure that it was standard procedure.
She was only thinking of a way to earn her family extra privileges by
doing something she loved. She asked,
“Why should I change the way I look on the outside, if I was raised as a woman,
identify as a woman, and have to compete with other women that may have other
advantages such as coming from a privileged background?”

Dutee Chand
It makes you wonder what she feels like, having her
gender questioned when all she has known is that she is a girl. Likewise, the narrator in Middlesex must have
questioned what happened to her. The
narrator mentions that she is born a girl, but then born again as a boy. In the first few pages, the narrator sounds
matter-of-fact, like he (or she) has accepted who he is. He hints at a budding relationship with Julie
in the part we have read so far, and a possible previous relationship with a
girl, and perhaps her brother. Although
I had some reservations about this book, I find myself eager to join the
journey of the various events that lead up to the narrator’s birth and his life
afterwards. It makes me curious about
how he is going to figure out that he is a hermaphrodite, how he deals with it,
and how he is going to grow relationships as he gets older.
I find it interesting that you bring up why a person would not want to read Middlesex, because it is not relatable, since I originally felt the same way. However, I think it is because this type of book does not seem to be relevant, makes it more important that we should try to read it. It offers us a different perspective from the type of life we know and to understand the struggles we could not possibly try to understand ourselves. Just as you found yourself curious after reading how his journey of realizations occur, I think understanding the process of his, could help us with our own self-discovery.
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